Content creator RoEnLaRed, whose real name is Rocío Romero, returned to her YouTube channel after a period of silence on social media and surprised a large part of her community with a big announcement: she is pregnant. The influencer revealed that she is expecting her first baby and is currently in her fourth month of pregnancy.

In the video, staying true to the authenticity of her content, Rocío admits that she is still processing this new phase of life. Between excitement, anxiety, and a bit of disbelief, she wanted to share with her followers how she learned about her pregnancy, how she communicated it to those around her, and how this experience aligns with her views on motherhood that she has advocated for years.

YouTube Description: Four Months Pregnant and Many Emotions

Rocío stated that she is about 17 weeks pregnant and decided to announce this news now because physical changes have started to show during her shoots. At the beginning of the video, she starts with a sentence that caused a stir on social media: “I will be someone's mother, if all goes well,” humorously expressing that she sees her dog Harlem as her “first child.”

The YouTuber shares that both she and her surroundings were “a bit shocked” when they heard the news. According to her, her friends and family are still trying to digest the pregnancy, just like she sometimes does, and she admits that on some days she struggles to believe it’s completely real, especially when she goes to ultrasound appointments.

She mentions that she is currently doing well physically. She explained that she did not experience severe nausea or vomiting in the first trimester, which is a concern for many pregnant women, and she expresses that she is trying to listen to her body and adapt to the changes gradually.

In addition to sharing more practical information, the content creator also showed some snippets of the reactions of her close circle when they heard the news. Many people thought this announcement could be related to a potential wedding, making the pregnancy revelation even more surprising and exciting.

A Personal Change: Maintaining the Message of Freedom About Motherhood

One of the most interesting topics among her followers is how this pregnancy aligns with Rocío's thoughts on motherhood that she has shared for years. The influencer has been a strong voice arguing that no woman is obligated to become a mother and that the desire not to have children is just as valid a choice as any other.

In her new video, she emphasizes that her current situation does not change this stance: the decision to become a mother does not mean that all women must be mothers. She often recalls criticizing the increasing social pressure women face as they approach or pass their thirties; she notes that she has encountered comments like “Time is running out” or “You will regret it later.”

A few months ago, Rocío shared her uncertainties about motherhood with the public. She explained that she did not want to make the decision to have children out of fear of her biological clock or anxiety about regretting it in the future. For her, taking this step solely out of fear of not being able to do it in the future would be a decision she described as “selfish.”

Now, while she is happy to be pregnant and looking forward to her baby’s arrival, Rocío continues to advocate that a woman's life is equally valid even if she does not have children. She supports a future where the pressure to become mothers or fathers is lessened, where no one feels the need to explain themselves for not wanting to start a traditional family. Her message is clear: motherhood is a choice, not an obligation.

How RoEnLaRed Learned About Her Pregnancy and Her Husband's Reaction

One of the most talked-about parts of the video was the story of how she learned about her pregnancy. Rocío shares that before finding out she was pregnant, she decided to have a serious conversation with her husband about her desire to become a mother. She knew that if she did not share this thought, it could shake their relationship.

In this conversation, she expressed that she felt the need to take a step towards motherhood and saw it as a project she truly wanted to undertake. What neither of them knew at that time was that she was pregnant but unaware of it. Shortly after, when she took the test and saw the positive result, everything took on a new meaning.

Rocío mentions that her husband reacted calmly and supportively, expressing his desire to become a father and his willingness to experience this with her. The alignment of their timing gave the content creator the feeling that the news came at a “perfect time”, making them feel in sync about what they wanted for the future.

Still, she does not hide that she felt a mix of fear and responsibility when she saw the positive test. She talks about the sudden tension and doubts that arose when she realized that a child’s arrival meant a profound change in daily life, expressing that she needed to gradually digest this idea. Nevertheless, she states that both she and her husband are very excited.

One of the sweetest details she shared is that she immediately thought of her dog Harlem and how she imagined the moment of introducing the baby. For Rocío, her pet has been a very important figure in her daily life for years, and she lovingly refers to him as her “first child.” This bond makes imagining the future life between Harlem and the new family member special.

Information About the Baby: Gender, Ultrasounds, and How She is Coping with Pregnancy

Without organizing major events or gatherings, Rocío confirmed that she already knows the gender of her baby. In the video, she explains that she initially expected a boy based on her last ultrasound. She shared this naturally with her friends and close circle, without resorting to the ‘gender reveal’ celebrations that have gone viral in recent years.

Staying true to her communication style, the influencer clearly states that the most important thing is for the baby to be healthy, without dramatizing the subject. She humorously adds, “Whether it’s a boy or whatever it wants to be,” and mentions that if the gynecologist misinterprets the ultrasound and it turns out to be a girl, it wouldn’t particularly worry them.

In the video, Rocío also shares some details from her last ultrasounds; she talks about having the opportunity to see and hear the baby. She describes these moments as very intense experiences that helped her connect with the reality of her pregnancy; especially during times when she struggled to fully digest this in her daily life. During these medical check-ups, she expresses that she truly grasped the situation she is living in.

Emotionally, she admits that she is still in the process of adjusting. She feels excited and grateful, but does not hide that she initially experienced fears and insecurities: doubts about whether she will be enough, how her routines will change, or how she will manage the responsibility of looking after another person. As the weeks go by, she notes that she is gaining more peace and confidence.

Regarding the public display of her private life, the content creator takes a cautious approach. She decided not to reveal her partner's identity, stemming from her previous experiences; in those experiences, her private life received significant media attention, especially after her breakup with content creator JPelirrojo. Now, she prefers to keep this part at a more intimate level.

The Reaction of Her Community and How She Will Continue to Share Her Process

RoEnLaRed's pregnancy announcement caused a flood of messages on social media. In a short time, the comments on the video were filled with congratulations, well wishes, and displays of love from her followers. Many highlighted the naturalness with which she approached such a personal topic.

Rocío states that she does not have a definite plan on how the pregnancy will affect her content, but she will share the process “whenever she wants and feels like it,” and she will not force herself to turn every stage into content for her channel. Her goal is to show what makes her feel comfortable and keep the things she wants to experience privately out of the spotlight.

This context clearly states that the most personal questions regarding pregnancy, childbirth, or breastfeeding should be respected. It emphasizes that curiosity is understandable, but not all aspects of motherhood need to be public; this applies even to a recognized figure on social media.

The YouTuber also highlighted that she wants to “do her best,” but as someone who will be a mother for the first time, she is aware that the process will involve learning. Her message moves away from the idea of perfect motherhood and approaches a more realistic perspective; there is excitement here, but also uncertainties, learning, and room for mistakes.

Her pregnancy comes at a time when she feels ready to take this step, but without compromising her stance on the freedom of choice. This news has strengthened her bond with her audience and has ensured that there is curiosity, closeness, and respect for the boundaries she has set regarding this new phase of content creation.